We were fighting a lot, had nothing in common anymore, and had drifted apart, but the worst part was that our life was so boring.
There are plenty of warning signs that divorce is on the horizon, and they seemed to check plenty of the boxes. Fighting is one of the most common symptoms, but it's far from the only one. The fact that they didn't have anything in common was probably what led to such a boring life.
I thought I didn’t care about anymore, but soon after he left, I found my libido soaring.
When you stop having sex, it's only natural for you to get hornier and hornier, especially when you've been sleeping with the same person for over a decade. At a certain point, you have to do something to take care of the urge. This woman certainly did.